There are no ordinary moments Every minute a decree is being fulfilled Every minute a truth is unfolding A choice is being made Either you’re against your destiny or for it How does one stay on the path? Ask God to guide you constantly As this life is slippery All it takes is a small […]Read more "There Are No Ordinary Moments"
When I left this blog I was just a child, a child who had not experienced life at its core and all its wonderful fruits or its harsher realities. Since then, God has made sure I experience both. Since then God has put me on a journey filled with turmoil that ultimately led to an […]Read more "Youth vs Grace"
Afternoon, fellow defiant sisters. How we all doing this hot summers day? If your casually strolling WordPress feel free to check out my feature on Lapptheblog. http://www.lappthebrand.com/2017/06/18/how-was-grenfell-towers-burn/Read more "Lapptheblog Feature."
Random thoughts lead to a random out of the blue post, so here’s this. I like to believe that my blog is aimed at the ethnic minority but welcomes all human kind. Either way, I’m going to put this out there… Who else is sick of seeing middle class White folk on the pedal stool? […]Read more "Random Pissed Off Post."
The term ‘Slut Shaming’ is defined as “the act of criticising a woman for her real or presumed sexual activity, or for behaving in ways that someone thinks are associated with her real or presumed sexual activity.” Slut shaming has made a key presence in the both the virtual the world and in reality, […]Read more "Slut Shaming- A Patriarchal Concept?"
More and more people are becoming open to the idea paying for sex. The journal ‘Sexually Transmitted Infections’ found 1 in 10 British men say that have paid for sex. 3.6% of the 6,000 men surveyed admitted going to prostitutes in the past five years. There has been a strong stereotype of the type men […]Read more "Buying a drink or Paying for sex?"
We all have endured that annoying Aunty, cousin, friend, colleague that just is too damn sensitive about our “flaws” (which society has defined of course) what I mean here is, you’re having a conversation you’re pretty confident and feel ok about yourself. You even accept and kinda like that flaw that most people wouldn’t. For […]Read more "Unconventional Beauty: Own it!"
As promised it’s time to get down to nitty and gritty world of Pakistani beauty perceptions and its challenges. Let’s face it, we don’t all look like those poster girls they broadcast to us, most of us our averagely looking. However, thanks to Pakistani ridiculous beauty standards some of us don’t even pass the “average” […]Read more "Unconventional Beauty: Perspectives"
Do Muslim women care about their sexuality? Do Muslim women care to maintain their physical appearances? Lastly, do Muslim women care to feel “sexy”? These are the questions many non-Muslims have been asking and enquiring about online. So I have decided to have a go in answering some based on my own experiences from the […]Read more "Muslim Women and Sexuality."
Many first and second generation migrants, especially those of South Asian, Middle Eastern or African and Afro Caribbean roots are way too familiar with that welcoming expression that British thugs like to wail out whilst usually drunk. They certainly don’t leave any exceptions for me. It was a fine Sunday afternoon until me and my […]Read more "Go Back Home!"